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Hearing shark music?

I'm very much enjoying the new book by Daniel Siegel titled No-Drama Discipline.  Last night I read a bit to John that had both of us laughing with rueful understanding.  Siegel was writing about how our kids' actions can be very alarming to us at times, leading our over-active imaginations down scary paths.  He warns about being too quick to hear 'shark music' -- you know, … [Read More...]

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Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup

Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup (GF)

Here's a great soup recipe that I found on Pinterest and then adapted quite a bit to suit my preferences.  I really, really love the bright flavors and pretty color added by the fresh tomato and cilantro. I've served it to a crowd twice, and each … [Read More...]

Parenting Feature

with Andrea at C4C in 2013

Need a getaway with a friend?

So today is a big day at the Owlhaven-- it's release date for Forever Mom: What to Expect When You're Adopting! The prayer of my heart for Forever Mom is that it will encourage and equip adoptive mommas to love their children well.  I went into … [Read More...]

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