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Frugal Friday

This week was quieter than we've had in....maybe months.  It was lovely to have no early appointments on multiple days, in fact, no place go *at all* some days.  Ahhhh. It bores my teens to tears, and truthfully I'd have happily watched at least twice as many soccer games as I did this fall.  I love watching Josh play.  But I just love the quieter days too.  They restore … [Read More...]

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Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup

Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup (GF)

Here's a great soup recipe that I found on Pinterest and then adapted quite a bit to suit my preferences.  I really, really love the bright flavors and pretty color added by the fresh tomato and cilantro. I've served it to a crowd twice, and each … [Read More...]

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Forever Mom: What to Expect When You’re Adopting (and free wall art)

I wanted to tell those of you who are interested a little about my latest book Forever Mom: What to Expect When You're Adopting.  It is coming out on October 28th, and I must confess to a crazy mix of excitement and tremulous nerves about this … [Read More...]

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