Featured Story

Photocredit: Jeremy Giddens

Hearing shark music?

I'm very much enjoying the new book by Daniel Siegel titled No-Drama Discipline.  Last night I read a bit to John that had both of us laughing with rueful understanding.  Siegel was writing about how our kids' actions can be very alarming to us at times, leading our over-active imaginations down scary paths.  He warns about being too quick to hear 'shark music' -- you know, … [Read More...]

Featured Recipe

Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup

Creamy Chicken and Potato Soup (GF)

Here's a great soup recipe that I found on Pinterest and then adapted quite a bit to suit my preferences.  I really, really love the bright flavors and pretty color added by the fresh tomato and cilantro. I've served it to a crowd twice, and each … [Read More...]

Parenting Feature

with Andrea at C4C in 2013

Need a getaway with a friend?

So today is a big day at the Owlhaven-- it's release date for Forever Mom: What to Expect When You're Adopting! The prayer of my heart for Forever Mom is that it will encourage and equip adoptive mommas to love their children well.  I went into … [Read More...]

Recent Posts

Toward the tub and toilet

Bathroom reveal, finally

There was once an upstairs bathroom with a crowded floor plan and a shower that had been needing to go to the dump for at least a year or five. But since it was neither the guest bath or the master bath, the project got delayed and delayed. But then this summer we finally decided […]

Gathering

Being Real

I’m preparing for a couple of different get-aways during October. I already mentioned the adoptive momma retreat that I’m planning locally, which I hope is going to bless the mommas attending. I’ve also been invited to attend a different adoption retreat in Seattle soon, also quite small and intimate. At each retreat there are mommas […]

Em at 12

My girl at 12

This girl of mine. I got a few pictures of her at her little niece Ali’s first birthday, and I just love how they capture her. She’s growing up on me lately– is only half an inch shorter than I am at barely 12. I think she’s going to be a tall lady. Two years […]

Canning

September grocery challenge, week 3

I spent $129 shopping this week, bringing our total for the month to $231. Given the fact that it’s Sept 19th, I think we’re doing great. I still have $70 to spend! This week I bought milk, eggs, oil, vinegar, cheese, butter, potatoes, oatmeal, raisins, yogurt, day-old bread, corn tortillas, onions, avocados (a splurge), and […]

applesauce

canning craziness

We canned 14 quarts of tomatoes and 35 quarts of applesauce in the last two days. And still we have at least 3 bushels of apples to process, with more on the tree. So. tired.

birthday time

September grocery challenge, week 2

This week I went to the store twice, but didn’t spend too much either time. Saturday I bought milk, butter, potatoes, onions, coffee creamer, and Kleenex for a grand total of $37. Sunday we had the family over for dinner to celebrate Lidya’s 19th birthday.  We had barbecued hamburgers, salad, pickles, cucumbers, watermelon, jello ice […]

On the road

Our day, in miles

aka: why I’m so tired. I suspect this could be deathly boring.  Read at your own risk. 6:30AM- 18yo Lidya leaves for college classes in the ‘teen’ minivan, about 40 miles round trip. 8AM=everyone else up, breakfast, school. 9:15AM =John leaves in the Festiva to take Josh (16) to his college class (20 miles round […]

When love isn't enough

Why it (sometimes) doesn’t matter how you feel about your kids

In the midst of the challenge of parenting many teens, inevitably there are moments where my kids see me as enemy number one, the  one thwarting their dearest-held wishes. Moments like these frustrate me as much as they frustrate them.  I want them to be happy and to grow in wisdom, and to never doubt […]

Almond Butter

September spending challenge, update #1

After just 6 days of eating out of the pantry and freezer, I can already find things in the freezer SO much more easily. I hadn’t realized how often I’ve been frustrated trying to find things in my overly crammed space. We’re eating much more variety than usual, just because I’m trying to use things […]

Books this year

What we’re reading

Today I finally got all my planning done for the school year, including who gets the computers at what time, when the teens will be taking their science tests, and which books all the kids will be reading this year.  Our three teens, all juniors, have just one book a month of assigned reading, which […]