About Owlhaven
I am Mary Ostyn. I’ve been married for 23 years to the guy I met in math class at age 17. We have kids in college, high school, junior high, grade school, and preschool, 10 altogether. Six girls. Four boys. Six of our children arrived via adoption, 2 from Korea and 4 from Ethiopia. Our oldest daughter just got married. Our second is in college. Our ‘baby’ is 5.
I homeschool. I kiss owies. I eat chocolate. I garden. I cook. I watch our budget. I take pictures obsessively. And I write. My 200-recipe cookbook/ shopping guide Family Feasts for $75 a Week came out in September, 2009, and is available at amazon.com, Barnes and Noble, Borders, CBD, and Costco. I also wrote A Sane Woman’s Guide to Raising a Large Family which came out in March, 2009 and is available at Amazon.
If I had to describe this blog in one sentence, I’d say it is about making the most of your resources so that you can have the greatest impact possible on the world around you, beginning, of course, with family.
Other places you can find my writing:
-I write occasionally on the topic of parenting at 5 Minutes for Parenting
– Largerfamilies.com is a collaborative blog where I write occasionally about the various challenges mothers of many face.
–If you are considering adoption, check out the archives of my Ethiopia adoption blog. I am not currently writing there, but my archives there are filled with answers to almost any question you might have about adopting a child from Ethiopia.
- You can email me at owlhaven at aol dot com
Oh, and the name Owlhaven? It came because our home sits on a rocky hillside where burrowing owls nest.
[...] lest anyone thinks I am clever enough to come up with this on my own, I have to credit Rachel and Mary for the inspiration. If anyone out there decides to embark on a no-spend project, please let me [...]
Hi Mary,
We are currently in the process of adopting an Ethiopian child with 8 other families at our church. This year we had the opportunity as a church to rescue children that were ‘mingi’ (cursed) children. They are in an orphanage and we are now going through homestudy. I read about your blog from Levi who is currently living at the orphanage with his family and preparing to adopt a child. Thank you for taking time to write about your experience. It will help us in this new venture. It is uncharted waters for all of the 8 families! Thank you for your blog!
I look forward to reading about your adoption process and your homeschool stuff too
Hi Mary!
I saw your book on the crockpot lady’s website and went to Borders to get it last nite:) I recently became a single mom with 2 boys, and I hope this will help us stay in budget. So far, we’ve gone way over in the grocery column every week. Looking forward to some useful tips:)
Just ordered your “Sane Woman’s Guide….” Can’t wait to read it! I just had my 5th child and would love my sanity to stay intact
I just picked up your book Family Feast for $75 per week. I love the recipes and the ideas in the book. I am pleased to see that many of the ideas that I have already been doing are in your book. I have gotten many new ideas from there as well. Thank you very much for writing it.
Just finished reading your book Family Feast for $75 per week. Wow:). I knew some of the things in your book but got a lot of new ideas. FYI my so would rather eat at home. YEAH!!!! Thanks for putting in the homemade pantry section. My son has ADHD and it makes it a lot easier to make sure he is not getting stuff that causes his behavior to get out of control for him. I love reading adoption blogs. Our son we adopted at birth. We still have contact with his birth mother. Several of our friends think we are crazy for having contact with her. I simple state he is our blessing from God and we will always be tied to her because of our son. I also say she made the hardest and most loving choice for “our son”. May God Bless you and your family.