John and I have never been rich (by Western standards, anyway), but we’ve always done our best to be wise users of our resources. We’re working to teach our children wise money habits as well. So many people these days are struggling under mountains of debt, due to college and new vehicles and too-much-house and too-much-shopping, as well as all sorts of other expenses that can sneak up on you. John and I have fallen into some of those pitfalls ourselves. And we know that our kids will have lessons of their own to learn out in the world. But we are doing our best to prepare them well so that they can avoid some of the most common problems. Here’s some of what we’re doing:
- Teach kids to be good workers, the kind of folks who give 110%, not 90%. This has got to be one of the first lessons kids learn, at a young age. Folks who aren’t afraid of work get noticed out in the world these days, and they’ll have an easier time finding jobs both as teens and as adults.
- Provide for kids’ needs, but as they grow begin to require them to pay for their own ‘wants’. For example, we’ll pay for $30 shoes. But if teens decide they’d rather have the $60 ones, they get to fork over the extra $30. Sometimes they do it; more often they decide they don’t want the spendy shoes enough to spend their own dough.
- Give kids ways to earn extra money for special projects, but don’t feel like you have to make it too easy. It’s okay that earning money feels like work. If my 8 and 10 year old girls beg me to buy them something at the store, I’ll often say, “Sure, if you’re willing to weed for half an hour to earn it.” Sometimes they go for my offer. More often they reconsider that particular impulse buy.
- Require that kids save a portion of everything they earn. As income grows, we increase the percentage we ask our kids to save. The latest gadget will be out of date in a year or two, but nobody ever regretted having money in savings.
- Take kids shopping with you at yard sales and thrift stores, as well as in regular retail stores. Help them check out Craigslist for bigger-ticket items. Our kids love to go thrifting, and they know first hand how much further money goes at thrift stores. (See our $20 thrift store challenge.)
- Talk with teens about future expenses using real numbers. Kids may think that minimum wage sounds like lots of money– until they sit down and look at prices of rental housing, used vehicles, electricity, gas, and car insurance. Recently my teens and I calculated that a person would need to work 38 hours a week to afford a very basic apartment in our area, ride the bus to work, and spend only $200 a month on groceries.
- Let teens try shopping for groceries for a week and see how far they can stretch the money. (Read here about our $20 grocery challenge.)
- Teach kids to cook. Being unafraid in the kitchen will save them lots of money over the years. Several homeschooling mommas have told me that Family Feasts for $75 a Week makes a great home economics course.
- Model creative problem-solving when things break around the house. Often you can repair broken items and save big bucks. (Here’s how we fix broken vertical blinds.)
- ‘Sneak’ wise money advice from other folks into kids’ ears whenever you get the chance. I listen to Dave Ramsey podcasts when I’m working in the kitchen with my kids, both to keep myself motivated, and to allow my kids to hear stories from folks struggling to overcome bad money choices. Though it’s inevitable that kids will make (and learn from) their own mistakes, I’m hoping they will also learn from the mistakes of others, and have a jump start on wise and careful spending in adulthood.
Along with all these ideas, we also share stories with our kids of the many ways that God has provided for our family over the years, and to talk to them about joyful giving as a way of thanking God for all He’s done for us.
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